Why would women throw themselves at an unattractive male bartender?

I saw this interview on YouTube where they interviewed some bartender’s about their job.

This one bartender who was a overweight bald middle aged man said when he is behind the counter, something “magical” happens and describes how women he’d never even consider approaching have given him their number, tried to make out with him, and even invite him back to their home. Ngl it made me so jealous.

Me and many guys who are very successful and talented and wealthier don’t get a fraction of the attention this guy gets, just because he works at a bar serving alcohol. I even thought bartender was a lower paying job and considered unattractive for men?