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Few-Dragonfly-5126

My Best Partners Have All Been xSTxs

Relationships

INFP woman here!

I am curious if any INFPs out there relate to only really hitting it off with ST types. In my case, I've been in good relationships with all ST types, though I have never dated an ESTJ (but I'm open to that too!)

I've never really been in love with an N type. My friends are all intuitives, but I guess I just don't feel romantically inclined toward N types.

The ST types I've dated have been grounded, skilled, protective, and yes, stereotypically masculine. They make me feel safe and I am wildly attracted to them. This chemistry has always been hard to deny. It just clicks with these guys.

Do you have a pattern in relationships? Maybe you only fall for intuitives, or like me, seem to go for the sensors?

Posted Nov 1, 2025, 11:57 PM UTC

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