AIO: I've seen way to many AIO posts to make me not want to be in relationship, AIO?

I'm a almost 28, single female who got out of a 4 year 'it's complicated' relationship with a guy this year who let's just say I'm never going there again - would be too long to even put in a did I over-react post.

I also know I didn't. I knew him for more than a decade too and yep nope not even getting into it.

Anyway, I'm currently working on my own self-worth, listening to my own needs and working on boundary setting and communication before I start dating again.

I, however, have seen so many posts from women with partners who treat them like crap - whether it's telling them what they can and can't wear or highlighting what they're wearing is inappropriate or being abusive or blaming them for what they were wearing because they got certain kinds of attention or calling them a feminist nazi for having some boundaries.

It makes me question whether there are any gentlemen out there. I don't want to be treated this way.

Sorry to the guys who are reading this who try to be decent - I don't mean to be insulting or anything but it's scary.