I don't know what I want anymore

I am Male age 25 yrs , I see the hookup culture and I want it the fun , the thrills and the physical aspect of it , on the other hand , I long for a romantic, fun love and normal life with a single girl that fulfills me. These create conflicts in my mind , plus on the other hand there is this thing of working on my career. Even though I know that the social media has rotten our minds wrt hookup culture and in general . For me I generally focus on my career but sometimes I get distracted and focus on pursuing a partner. I don't know what to do , I know it is normal for my age to feel these feelings and get distracted even due to attraction and hormones but still I get confused on the 1st part as well. My mind is a mess.