30 [M4F] #UK #Online - Just a Dom looking for his new favourite distraction

Though if I'm being truthful it's more than just a distraction I'm looking for. I want something deeper, something more intense and possessive. More than just a distraction

I want you on my mind all day and equally I want to be in yours.

I'll start with the basics. I'm a 30 year old dom who works a corporate 9-5. Outside of that I play rugby, drums and I have 2 cats which I adore. I also love my fantasy and have plenty of nerdy pursuits (including DM'ing my own D&D campaign!). I also love going to gigs - mostly rock, metal and alt music and whilst I don't have any tattoos yet they are definitely on the near horizon.

What I’m looking for is a sub — someone open-minded, curious, and ready to explore. Experience isn’t as important to me as honesty, chemistry, and a genuine desire to connect. I want someone who enjoys the build-up as much as the release; who craves the mental tension as much as the physical. Someone who wants to be seen, understood, and pushed — in all the right ways.

I love the psychology of D/s dynamix— the way anticipation builds, how trust deepens, how power and surrender can both feel intoxicating when shared with the right person. That connection means everything to me. But attraction matters too, so I’d definitely like to exchange photos once we start talking.

As for my kinks there are plenty which include (but are not limited to):

Bondage, edging and denial, praise and degradation, oral (giving and receiving), choking, impact play, CNC, free use.

My hard limits are scat, gore, anything illegal.

If any of this makes you smile, blush, or feel that tingling sensation down in your stomach(or perhaps lower) then send me a message.

You may prove to be the kind of distraction I'm looking for