31 [F4M] #Michigan looking for my local "lightning in a bottle"

Married women from Michigan do it best, or at least that is what I tell myself as I sit here weighing what I have to offer a potential ap. Going into November, I want to find my ideal fit.

I want someone who meets the following basic "criteria," so to speak:

• Is also married
• Non-smoker and not a big drinker
• In MI, travels here, or will travel here
• Age range: late 20s through early 50s
• Understands and utilizes great OPSEC
• Has availability outside of 9-5 and on weekends
• Conventionally attractive, but not a "super model"
• Independent or center, or liberal, politically speaking

Personality and intellect-wise these are my personal preferences in what I would like:

• Someone who cares about using the correct form of "their," "there," and "they're" and "your" versus "you're."
• Someone who has a degree or skilled training, work-wise. I have a couple of degrees.
• Someone who is not super negative. I love a healthy dose of realism or the occasional pessimism at times, but I wouldn't jive well with someone who is always that way.
• Someone who can appreciate sarcasm as well as having a tasteful sense of humor.
• Someone who cares about other peoples perspectives, opinions and thoughts and is not very closed-minded in how they see and live in the world.

Looks-wise these are my personal preferences in what I would like:

• Someone who is average weight or overweight. Good with athletic too- but not looking for someone who is super buff. I am not looking for someone who is morbidly obese.
• If you have hair, any color is great. If you do not have any hair, that is equally good.
• I tend to go for white men but I am very open to someone of a different ethnicity.
• Height-wise I would prefer if you are around 5'5/5'6 ish or taller.
• I do not care about your "size" do not put it in the message.

If you feel like you fit with me well based on reading this, then tell me some of your favorite music artists you enjoy listening to, or tell me what you had for dinner tonight.