my mother started to cry today after picking my phone last night: update

so, this is an update about my last post. my parents talked to me after my exam today and told me they saw everything: my twitter page and my boyfriend's texts. and they weren't very fucking nice about it. they said that he was "clearly" an groomer because of how he texts me and that I didn't love him, but rather I liked the way he treated me. they even told me that the problem was that he was a "man" (he's non-binary). they told me I had three options: 1) either i break up with him and follow the rules of their house; 2) follow their rules until I was 18, then I would be "free" and expelled from my house; 3) be expelled today and live my own life, without them "interfering" with what I wanted. i chose the first option, but i don't want to break up with him. he's genuinely so kind and lovely. i don't want to lose him. but my parents told me that, if i continued with him, id be expelled immediately from my place. and im scared. really, really fucking scared. i dont even know if ill be able to see him after getting into college. im scared. and i dont know what to do.