30 [M4F] #Online/Anywhere - Where is my Buxom Submissive Gamer Mommy hiding? Your Soft Dom Gamer Son has been seeking you! LD LTR Dynamic or FWB Dynamic
Hello there(Insert Obi Wan GIF here haha)! Thank you for checking out my Ad! Strap in, it's gonna be a crazy little ride! π
#Firstly, I'm not here to be a side show pony, I'm here for either a committed relationship, or a FWB. I'm not here for a "Friends-to-Lovers Arc", or to just "Hangout". I'm here to either find my Person, or to find my Spicy Friend.
#About Myself..
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Physically: I'm a 5'8'' African American with Short Black Hair and a Beard, and Dark Brown Eyes. I have a Average Build with some Muscle Definition, and a little bit of gut. "Dad bod". π€£
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Personality: I'm a chill, laid-back, respectful, jokey, loyal, sweet, and non-judgmental type of cat. I'm open, honest, emotionally intelligent, and I don't have a jealous bone in my body.
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Location: I'm currently living in Memphis, TN(US). CST, but I'm pretty flexible with time-frames. Btw, I am typically a Night Owl.
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Nerdy Gamer: I'm a proud Nerd and Gamer that plays Fortnite, COD, OW2, Valorant, Phasmophobia, Fall Guys, Marvel Rivals, Palworld, and Minecraft currently.
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Film & Series Enthusiast: Action, Sci-Fi, Fantasy, and Horror are all my jam!
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Other Hobbies: Working out, Listening to Music, Writing, and Monologuing to myself like a super villian sometimes! π
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No Vices: I don't Drink, Smoke, or do any Drugs.
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Childless(I want Kiddos eventually): "Luke, I'm not your Father!". As you can see, I have no shame, okay? π€£
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Monogamous: I'm personally Monogamous.. Respect to the Poly/ENM folks out there, tho.
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Unemployed currently: Don't worry, I'm not out here looking for handouts or anything like that. That's not who I am. I'm just looking to build towards a relationship.
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Soft Dom: I consider myself a Soft Dom with a splash of roughness thrown in. Also! I am all about Safewords, and I'm a giver of Aftercare. βΊοΈ
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Sexuality: I'm Hetero/Demisexual. I want to get to know you a bit first before jumping into the horny horny hehe. Having a connection beyond JUST a sexual connection is important to me. I will say that I generally have a High Libido. I'm not at all ruled by it, tho.
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Virgin: Clearly I'm not an innocent one hehe. I'm a well educated and sex positive Virgin. I'm very familiar with a Woman's body. Yes, I know where the Clit and G-Spot are. ππ
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My Views on Porn: I watch/listen to Porn(Not 24/7). I'm no addict. I have a healthy relationship with Porn. I don't have "Porn-brain". I view the performers as actual human beings, and not as sexual objects. I know it's all just fantasy. I believe Porn is a safe space to explore our desires free from the judgement of others.(I mainly watch Solo Porn, and listen to Audio Porn)
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Kinks: Taboo RP, D/s, RP, Dirty Talk, Begging, Drool, Breast Play, Breastfeeding, Lactation, Breeding, Hucow, HJ, BJ, Deep Throat, Face Fucking, Titfucking, Fingering, Cunnilingus, Squirting, Shower Sex, Free-use, Toys, Remote Toys, Praise, Degradation, Spanking, Rough Sex, Gag, Cuffs, Food Play, Sexting, Phone Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Orgasm Control, Outfit Control, Anal, Butt Plugs, 24/7, and more!
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Hard Limits: Needles, Cutting, Most Blood(I'm not opposed to Period Blood, tho), Scat, Vomit, Race Play, Anything Illegal, Bad Hygiene, Diaper Play, Food Control, Feederism, Receiving Anal/Impact/Scratches/Bites, & being called a "Good Boy". -----β----------------------------------------------------- #FWB Specifications
ONLY READ THIS PART IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THE FWB DYNAMIC. THOSE INTERESTED IN THE LTR DYNAMIC CAN SKIP THIS PART.
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A Gamer: That is from Ages 20 - 60 who either plays(at least one of) the same Games that I play, or is willing to play some of the same Games that I play. Let's chat and play Video Games together, and make all kinds of fun memories together!
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Relationship Status: Single(Monogamous or Poly/ENM), or Partnered(Poly/ENM that are NOT Married. Nothing against Married couples, it would just mess with my head a bit) are welcomed!
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Moms or Childfree: Whether you're a Single Mom, a Partnered Mom, a Pregnant Mom, or you're Childfree, you are also welcomed to message me!
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Wants to be my Friend: I want a FWB who actually wants to be my Friend. We should be able to talk about any and everything with each other. Such as our day-to-day lives, our nerdy interests, our Dating Ventures, etc. It'll of course be a very Sexy Friendship, but it'll still be a Friendship nonetheless.
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Interested in JUST an Online FWB Dynamic: I want a FWB that understands and agrees with this JUST being an Online FWB Dynamic without the possibility of it ever moving to IRL.
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FWB Time Management: All that I ask is that you make time for us to Game and/or Chat regularly. I don't expect it to be 24/7. I'm not trying to take time away from your other priorities, with that said, I would prefer not to be left by the wayside either just because we're FWBs. I'll also make time for us.
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ONLY READ THIS PART IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THE LTR DYNAMIC. THOSE INTERESTED IN FWB DYNAMIC CAN SKIP THIS PART.
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A Gamer: That is from Ages 20 - 45 who either plays(at least one of) the same Games that I play, or is willing to play some of the same Games that I play. Let's chat and play Video Games together, and make all kinds of fun memories together!
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Interested in a LD LTR: It'll be a Long Distance Long Term Relationship for awhile, but eventually it would become a IRL LTR. I want a Parnter who understands and agrees with that.
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Single, Monogamous, & with or without kiddos: Either a Single Mom who is Monogamous and wants more Kiddos eventually, or a Single Monogamous and a Childless(Wants Kiddos eventually) Partner such as myself.
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Wants to start a Family in the future: Definitely not an immediate thing. It would be the goal for us at some point in the future.
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LTR Time Management: All that I ask is that you make time for us to Game and/or Chat regularly. I don't expect it to be 24/7. I'm not trying to take time away from your other priorities, with that said, I would prefer not to be left by the wayside either. This is supposed to be a committed relationship after all. I'll also make time for us. -----β----------------------------------------------------- #The Submissive Mommy/Partner/FWB I'm Looking For..
THE FOLLOWING APPLIES TO BOTH LTR PARTNER & FWB.
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A Consistent Communicator: Texting is cool, however I want more than just that. Various forms of vocal communication regularly, and video calls as well. (This doesn't mean I need us to be communicating every second of the day. Just regularly and daily). I've sadly dealt with wayyy too many inconsistent communicators.
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A Caller & Voice Message Sender: Voice Messages and Calls are VERY important to me. I love sending and receiving VMs! I love Calls! I've unfortunately been burned too many times by a lack of VMs and Calls in the past.
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Not a Ghoster: There's no need to Ghost. We're adults, and we should be able to have an adult conversation if one or both of us no longer wish to proceed with the relationship.
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Not a Cheater: I'm not interested in being anyone's Affair Partner.
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Open, Honest, and Emotionally intelligent: I want a Partnter or FWB that keeps the lines of open and honest communication open regularly just as I do, and is emotionally intelligent. I expect complete openness and honesty, and I expect a willingness to answer any questions I have. I'll do the same. π
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Nurturing: I want a Nurturing Partner or FWB because I'm Nurturing person myself and I would want the same in return. I feel like we'd really be each other's rock. βΊοΈ
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Busty Buxom: I love Busty, Buxom, Full-Figured women. I love all the beautiful jiggly curves! Every single curve is beautiful to me. I'm mostly a "Boob Guy". I'm also an "Ass Guy". So I love Big Boobs and a Big Ass π€.. I'm not bothered by a tummy, btw. π
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Breast Size: Either BIG or HUGE Breasts. I love both Perky Breasts and Saggy Breasts! Fun fact! Saggy Breasts have never fazed me because I know how gravity works! ππ€£
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Not a Bigot: There is no need to be Racist/Homophobic.
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Employment Status: Whether you're currently employed or not, feel free to reach out to me. I don't feel threatened by a Woman with a j-o-b, and I'm not going to judge you if you're unemployed currently like I am. π
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Unproblematic: The more Unproblematic, the better.
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Not Absurdly Jealous: Jealousy is a valid emotion to feel. It's all about how you handle feeling that emotion. I have friends that are Women. There is no need to be absurdly jealous of them or anyone else for that matter.(And yes I'm cool with you having friends that are Men)
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No Cigarette Smokers: I just can't handle the overwhelming Cigarette Smoke cloud. I'd faint, and that wouldn't look cool at all. π
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Vices I'm Cool With: Drinking responsibly, Weed, and Vapes.
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Night Owl: Since I've always been a Night Owl, I feel like if my Partner or FWB was a Night Owl as well would be amazing!
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High Libido: Since I have a High Libido, I believe I would feel most connected with a Partnter or FWB who also has a High Libido. I feel like we would just really understand each other, ya know?
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Submissive Experience Level: I'm open to all levels of Submissive experience.
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Sexual Experience Level: Whether you're a Virgin like me, or you've had Partners before me, feel free to reach out to me. All I ask is that you are sex positive, and you are a practitioner of safe-sex.
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Porn-Enthusiast/Porn-Curious: I want a Partner or FWB who is either a Porn-Enthusiast like me, or at the very least is Porn-Curious. I'd love to watch Porn with my Partner or FWB, and share Porn with my Partner or FWB. I believe Porn in a relationship can still be healthy. It's all about consistent open and honest communication.
#Our 24/7 D/s LTR Dynamic or FWB Dynamic: Dominant Son/submissive Mommy Taboo RP..
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Sub Mommy Types: I'm open to all different types. Whether that be a Pet Mommy, a Service Mommy, a Brat Mommy, a Slave Mommy, etc.
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My Dom Honorifics: Sweetie, Baby, Honey, Hun, Son. I'm not expecting you to refer to me as any of my Honorifics in your first message. I do expect you to respect my Honorifics and not invalidate my Honorifics. My Honorifics are non-negotiable.
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The Dynamic: This Taboo RP Dynamic is going to be THE Dynamic 24/7(There will be room for out of Dynamic Talks). I expect you to respect the Dynamic and not invalidate the Dynamic. This Dynamic is non-negotiable.
#In Case You Were Wondering If I would be opposed to these things, I'm not..
- I ain't afraid of no: Tall Women, Short Women, Same Height as me Women, Tattooed Women, Women with Piercings, Tomboys, Goth Women, Bi/Pansexual Women, Women with Stretch Marks/Cellulite, Women with Body/Facial Hair, or Non-Binaries(AFAB). Lol, but seriously tho you're all welcomed to message me. βΊοΈ
#If You're Interested..
Send me a chat with details about yourself(Age, Location, Body Type, Breast Size, If you have kiddos or not, Games you play, Libido Level, Views on Porn, How you feel about the Dynamic, Your Kinks & Hard Limits) & tell me your favorite kind of Weather π§π€ to make sure you've read everything here.
Start your message off with either "LTR" or "FWB" so I know which Relationship Type you are interested in with me.
Do NOT send me a chat if you are NOT these specifications I've mentioned here.
If you have any questions regarding my Dating/FWB Ad, feel free to ask, and I'll answer them to the best of my ability.
Posted Nov 3, 2025, 9:01 PM UTC Β· locked