those of you who have sex casually/no strings, will you still have sex with someone you don’t like as a person or does that ruin it for you?

ok call me weird or unusual and i am not saying if i see someone hot i wont be physically attracted but if i meet them in person and there isn’t like a vibe or we dont connect it would feel awkward to try to escalate things because one or the other person would basically have to make themselves more palatable to the other which would feel inauthentic and forced.

and i mean i get watching porn or seeing sex workers but how do you fuck each other when you don’t like each others’ personalities? i suppose everyone is different i am just trying to learn/am curious. perhaps i can’t really do casual beyond the described parameters idk.

anyone of any gender can answer but very curious about fellow bi/bi+ men experiences.

just to reiterate i am not trying to judge i just started putting myself out there again after awhile and am reflecting on how i feel in general vs like when i am not seeing anyone how it would be nice to have lots of sex with lots of hot people.

but in reality getting to know a person is a lot of bandwidth and there’s something empty about having sex with someone and never seeing them again.

if i like them and am attracted to them the sex is good and i want to talk to them and meet up and have more sex with them. idk all kind of random thoughts and feelings im trying to make sense of.