28 [M4F] - dead bedroom? Same lol let’s chat about our frustrations? (Online only for now?.. not sure what I’m looking for lol)

Everything in the marriage is good just seems like my pleasure, or my wants or my desires are never even a consideration? She has a very selfish way of going about life and is all about receiving and not giving?

I’ve been through every conversation, every scenario, everything I possibly could to try to get her to at least act like she cares or she’s interested and turns out I’ve most likely just been putting up with what’s been happening because I love her not because it’s fair?

I could jump waaaaay deeper into it or keep it surface level but anyone else in a relationship or marriage where everything is great it’s just there’s thing underlying selfishness that you know will never go away? Just sitting here trying to figure out a compromise without having to cheat but it seems like if I ever want certain things in life I’ll have to go through another person?

Idk I’m rambling now lol, shoot me a message if you’re in the same situation?