Friends that have kids, when you are childless.

I am childess and don't plan to have kids. A close friend had her fourth child probably 5 months ago. I haven't been over since the birth. I just really don't like being in the house with all the madness and now another child got added in the mix. Don't get me wrong, I like kids and I like her kids, but sometimes it's just WAYY too much sensory overload for me. Do you blame me? I have invited her out multiple times (for a different setting), and she has bailed every time.