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Fharrak

30 [M4M] #online Sub Top edging/milking cow looking for a dom into mind-fucking SPH, JOI, Edging, Verbal

NSFWI am a submissive

Hey there! I'm a 30 year old gay Asian bear-ish sub top with a smaller 4" cock. I'd love to regularly give up control of my cock to a Dom who's into JOI, Edging, Verbal, and Small Penis Humiliation/Degradation. If you really want to push my buttons, Verbal Small Penis Humiliation/Degradation is my favorite thing. Bonus if you're younger than me or have an uncut cock!

  • I'm not looking for someone who wants to play together every day, but would appreciate regular conversation a few times a week to exert the sense of control you might have over me, with some live play 1-3 times a week

Would love a Dom that enjoys:

  • Teasing, seeing me horny and productive (cum-wise)
  • Comparing cocks, with tasks for losing or weekly tasks overall
  • Brutal mind-fucking SPH/Verbal
    • I'd really like to dig deep and push my SPH limits. Eg. making sure I understand my place in regular chats, seeing it as an opportunity to make sure I don't forget that I'm not a real man because of my tiny cock
  • Name Calling/Verbal
    • Anything from cum/milk cow, cum slave, tiny dick loser, boy, beta, pathetic, worthless, f****t
  • Forced Ruined Orgasms / Milking out cum from a small and pathetic cock

Other scenario that I've tried and enjoyed:

  • Forced to keep a small condom on my cock and collect any precum and cum from forced ruins throughout the day, to track how much cum I am producing for my Dom

Limits:

  • Scat, Vomit, Blood, Permanent Marks
  • Sissification/Feminization

I am used to edging my cock for a minimum of 30 min up to 1.5-2 hours at a time, so if you're looking for someone who can actually commit to the edge then you've found your sub. The number of times I can usually ruin depends on how mind-fucked and under your control I am but I can usually manage at least 1-2 ruins + a real orgasm afterwards.

I also have a variety of toys that I'm happy to share a few pictures of.

Let me know if you're interested at all and have read this by sending me the keyword 'cake' in your message so I can differentiate it from the one-off posts I make :) I'm also in West Coast US/Pacific (PST) Time Zone

Posted Nov 3, 2025, 9:10 PM UTC

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