Help with Pvp.

Damn theres SO MANY WEAPONS i was trying all Tier 3 weapons, and fuuuck! Loved Crossbow, Loved Bow, Loved Shield, Loved Lance, Loved Dagger, Liked Gloves, Liked Quatersatff, Disliked all mage weapons. WHAT DO I DO?? Fuuck im almost getting lvl 100 on lance. Im using a solo pve build. with break-faces shield and mercenary jacket. (idk if this is the right name in english since im Brazillian) really loved the stetics of shield. I also disliked all second handed weapons. book torch etc. Theres any build with heavy armor in pvp? What about crosbow and shield? pvp viable? Disliked Mage. Disliked Mace. So my thing is damage. But tank deserves a try. So what builds u recomend guys? I see a lot of players giving huve damage and wearing heavy armor but heavy armors look like tanking only, cus the skills are all about incresing defense or shield buffs.