How do I find love? I want to love someone, but I cannot seem to connect.

I got out of a relationship recently, and as amazing as that was, she never made time or reached out to me. I don't want much. All I want is a nice girl who likes hanging out with me. I they like hugs that's a *big* bonus. Side tangent, I am touch deprived. For me it's really hard to take an in-school friendship to an out of school one. Like, when is it right to ask a girl for her number/give her mine? How do I know if someone likes me? I try really hard to be the best guy I can be, and I'm not unattractive, I'd say I'm above average (on a good day), I take care of myself, but I can't find a girl that I click with. WDID? Advice? Comments?