28 [M4F] #California/online - Looking for a FWB with a focus on being friends and hanging out first!
As the title says: I'm looking for a FWB. I know it's hard to find people near me in this sea of r4r so this could happen in one of two ways I suppose
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It'd be nice to find someone near me or at least in California! I'm from the Monterey bay area but I have no issues traveling within California as I enjoy driving and visiting other places 😊
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I'd be ok with finding a FWB online too! Except in this case we'd be obviously restricted to online interactions such as sexting, and sharing porn or sharing stories of our experiences or encounters!
Now about me: I'm 28 from California, as mentioned I currently live in the Monterey Bay area so bonus points if you're within a few hours of me! I'm a bit on the nerdy side. I enjoy math and science topics alot. At work I'm more on the extroverted side but in my personal life I'm more introverted and have a small social circle. I enjoy playing video games so it'd be nice if you did too but not a deal breaker at all 😊 the games I current play are Destiny 2, Warframe, Apex Legends, GTA online and others! (I play on the PS5). I enjoy exercising and general outdoorsy stuff, and in specific I really enjoy walking along the rocks on a beach! I'm also into the usual introverted activities such as staying in, watching shows/movies, cooking/baking and anything else you can think of. I'm super easy to get along with and have no trouble talking to anyone 😊 I know mutual attraction is important so I'm open to sending a picture early if that's important to you!
More about the NSFW stuff: In general I'm a pretty sexual being 😅 I used to be super shy but over the years I've been more comfortable with enjoying the pleasure of intimacy. I enjoy pleasing the other person more than myself and I'm open to most kinks to help you fulfill your needs and desires! Whether it be vanilla or a bit more on the freaky side haha
I'm mainly looking for a FWB but I'm open to a relationship if it feels right for both of us😊 I'm just being careful cause I've been hurt 😭
Hopefully we can build a good relationship with pure fun and no complications whatsoever! This doesn't need to be filled with drama or any stress whatsoever. Message me to see if we hit it off
Posted Nov 5, 2025, 1:47 AM UTC · locked