Did I do the right thing?

My BPD boyfriend and I just got into a pretty bad fight. My legal situation where I live is a bit complicated, and he’s aware of it, he’s always said he “accepts” me with everything that comes with it. But every time we get into a big argument, he ends up bringing it up, and it makes me feel like a burden most of the time.

Today’s fight started over a BPD-related issue ,he said he needed to protect himself from me ,and then he turned the whole argument into being about my legal situation again. I got tired of the same thing and told him I was over it. I guess I expected him to say something like “don’t leave” or “we’ll figure it out,” but instead he told me I should just leave, and he was pretty mean about it.

I’m hurt and not sure what to do. I ended up blocking him everywhere, but now I’m wondering if I did the wrong thing. I just wanted a partner who would love and accept me for who I am, instead of making me feel ashamed for my situation.

Posted Nov 5, 2025, 1:51 AM UTC

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