[VENT] my friend is a fujoshi.
my friend is a fujoshi, and while i love hanging out with her, it feels uncomfortable hanging out with her sometimes. when i told her i was a gay dude, she begun to do things for me because i was a "gay man" and all that. but, why does it matter? i want to be treated the same as before. when i was a girl(ish) person.
and she ships and reads a LOT of yaoi and bl, like every "alt-pop" girl at my school that's just popular but different. (only difference is that she's 7th grade, so she doesn't have a high ranking in the social ladder yet, our school is 7-8.)
i was talking to her about a cute bl comic i was reading (i love fluff) and she's like "already read that one dude" like huh??? it's not too well known either. she only ships gay men really. it really fuckin pmo because like, i haven't seen you ship two girls more than ONCE, maybe. it's just so fuckin infuriating man. she's my bestie so i don't wanna leave her but yeah. how do i talk to her about this? so far i've just been droppin in groupchats saying i lowk hated fujoshis and stuff to hopefully get the message across but.
this sucks.
Posted Nov 5, 2025, 1:55 AM UTC