Wisdom on how to approach this

Ethics / Risk :snoo_disapproval:

Hi all! I am getting married this New Year’s Eve, and have disclosed just that to my clients (mostly due to name change, and the fact that I will be out for 3 weeks.) I have generally managed their excitement for me and questions well and keep it very short and to the point “I will be out for my wedding/honeymoon” “yes I am excited!” Then redirect back.

My clients are so amazing and I know that both heading into the holidays as well as my wedding we enter the territory of gift giving. I have had one client straight up tell me that she has something for me before I go away. I want to address this with her (and maybe generally among my clients) about how they do not need to gift me anything. I don’t want it to come off as I’m bringing it up because I expect something (my own stuff- working thru in my therapy lol) but I have considered giving a short speal, something along the lines of

“I know the holidays are coming up and that can consist of sometimes giving a receiving small gifts to those who are important to us. I want to let you know while I will always greatly appreciate the sentiment of a client giving a gift, you do not need to give me anything. This has to do with our ethics as therapists.”

I know some clients might craft or make something, which I would be more open to accepting, but they work so hard and have their own lives, I don’t want them to think I need anything but also don’t want to hurt the rapport.

Sorry if this is long and disorganized, but curious to hear people’s thoughts or how they’ve handled similar situations!!!

Posted Nov 5, 2025, 2:55 PM UTC

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