AIO for forcing my wife to go home at 12am?

My wife went out last night with a female workmate to a restaurant. They had dinner and drink then at around 11pm, my wife tried to call me but didn’t answer because i was making my son sleep and didn’t want to disrupt him. Then she messaged me that she’s on a cab.

Then at 11:13pm she messaged me that she’ll meet an officemate at a hotel. Which she didn’t mentioned and just suddenly met up.

This officemate, in a different company for about 8-9 months already. they usually hang out before when they worked together and still hang out with other officemates. Basically a group of friends that still connect with each other now. Usually at a restaurant or a bar or their boss’ family house which i already went to a few times.

But last night it was just the two of them. She mentioned that they are in just in the lobby. She went home around 2:00am.

So, AIO for telling my wife to go home at 12am but she didn’t?