Are you the only pretty woman for a man who loves you? Or does he see other women pretty too?

Reposting because I really don't know where was the marriage or potential marriage aspect of this post 😥

For a man, is the woman he loves the "only" pretty woman in his eyes.....or does he find other women he accidentally sees here and there also pretty......given that he lowers his gaze but ofc its the "first look". Are you the "prettiest" woman meaning that he finds others pretty too, or just the only pretty one....... If he says he doesnt find other women pretty, then why would he get fitnah from them? Why would he get seduced by them/their existence and think of wrong things? Do you even understand my question? Okay, I understand that they get fitnah without having emotional connections. But what about beauty? For them to get fitnah and be barely able to control themselves that means that they found the woman pretty and seducing. So how can someone who loves someone find other women pretty.....and seducing and have a lust for them too?

Why is it so hard for men to understand this aspect, and that it hurts knowing that the man we love and trust finds other women sort of pretty? What is so hard to understand i dont get it . Can someone explain the concept kindly. I fail to understand it no matter how much I look at it over and over again.