AITAH for not wanting to tell my father things about my new job because he blabs to his co workers and the one he’s seeing after I asked him not to tell anything what I tell him to others?

It violates what I asked him to not do and I see no point in sharing what I tell him because it’s said in a conversation between him and I that I don’t want said to others to begin with. If I wanted them to know I would tell them myself which the one he’s seeing is a nosy gossiper who can’t keep her nose out of anyone’s business. What makes me mad is the fact he doesn’t listen to my wishes so I get pissed off about him blabbing to others.

I asked him to not tell them what I do in my life to keep my privacy intact and what I tell him I mean to tell to his ears only and not want it shared because I don’t see it being anyone else’s business which I’ve expressed to him before. I just want to know if I’m an asshole about being pissed when he clearly doesn’t listen to my boundaries I try to set. I will eventually not tell him a damn thing.