All the spinning plates and not enough hands

Boyfailure here. I don't get it. You guys manage to juggle camsites and life so effortlessly, spin 2 plates fine. Some of you even add in a third plate with a vanilla job on and don't struggle. I've realised that if I want this to work properly, I've got to try and spin towards 6 plates between streaming, adding in sites like OnlyFans and Fansly (which actually becomes 2 plates when people start making requests), working my vanilla job, looking for a different vanilla job because this one doesn't pay enough, and making sure I'm not swamped mental health wise. I can't do it, I don't see how it's feasibly possible for me to be doing all of those at the very same time and all of them getting the attention they need, like Ive figured out that in my head, OF and streams are at opposite ends of a scale, and I can only put my attention into one at a time, leaving the other high and dry and thus losing all traction. Getting into a daily routine would be amazing but it just hasn't managed to click yet. Adding in the vanilla job stuff, if I could move out, do this full time I would! But I just can't, so that kills a good portion of the day, and then I have to spend time at home thinking of jobs cus life is expensive. Everything piles up and then my funny old brain goes "nope, not doing this anymore", throws all the toys out the pram and everything crashes down. Each time I kick up the pieces it gets harder and harder to enjoy doing this because I do! But I can't figure out how to finely balance everything. How do you all do it because I'm so close to just giving up, but I'm not ready to. It's not my way to give up and there has to be something I've missed here