19m looking to spend Christmas and New Year’s with someone
Hey, so I’ll be spending Christmas and new years alone this year. Not by choice. But however I have always spent festivals alone. Just never had anything good with family, now live far away from them and it’s still the same shit.
It’s my first Christmas actually since in my home country we don’t really celebrate it. I was glad this year that I didn’t have to see people celebrating and enjoying themselves during the festive season in my country since I wasn’t there to begin with. But now the Christmas loneliness is already getting to me lol.
I was sort of looking forward to my first Christmas but whatever circumstances don’t allow for it. It’s sad obviously but I was wondering what could I be doing instead? I’m hoping to find someone to celebrate Christmas with but the problem is obvious everyone already has plans lol. So if there are people who are in the same position as me I guess we could do something for Christmas? Idk how it actually works I have never celebrated it lol.
More about me : I’m originally from India but I live in Italy. I’m 19 years old I’ll be 20 next month. Im gay if that matters idk lol. I’m mostly introverted unless I am comfortable with someone and I enjoy music, reading novels or mostly am just studying. I enjoy going on walks too.
As I’m looking for someone irl it would be nice if you’re based in Italy as well. Dm me if you think we could be good friends and hopefully not be alone on Christmas lol.
Posted Nov 5, 2025, 11:44 PM UTC