Me (23M) I’m into my coworker (23F) and I don’t know if I should try to gain her heart or stay away.

I have a new coworker that I’ve met last week and she’s like the perfect woman to me( the eyes, the hair, the body type, the personality, just everything about her I found perfect) she accepted to go on a date with me and I couldn’t hide my attraction towards her I was excited (I haven’t liked someone this much since years I was like 18 or 19) so in the date I was hugging her, taking her hand and super nervous I was just liked her that much that I wasn’t thinking right and I tried to steal a kiss from her 3 times she accepted to go on a date with me because she’s said I was cute ( she said that to her sister my other coworker) at the end of the date she mentioned that maybe we should stay as friends and I feel like I fucked up which I know I did and I don’t know if I should try to gain her heart o just let her go. I really liked her but I don’t know if I should be a romantic and I have so many ideas of what I could do or just leave her alone. She doesn’t really text me back and I explained that I was nervous on the first date and she said that is fine but it was too much for the first date or something like that. If there’s any girls out there that could reply. What would you like a guy to do? Let her go or try my best. ?

Posted Nov 5, 2025, 11:51 PM UTC

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