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whiskertoe

Half struggles advice

Identity

Living in Singapore, my mum is Singaporean Chinese my dad is half Greek half Filipino, I feel like I take after my dad Greek side, I have big nose deep set double eyes with big eyebrows, at family gathering I stick out a lot always getting teased by elderly relatives speaking about when il grow into my parents features, for ages I have tried to love how I look but today was my tipping point when I got rejected from an apartment for being a foreigner. I could only assume this is to do with how I look since all my credentials prove I am not.

How do I get around this? The apartment problem will be resolved easy with applying for a different building but socially I will have to change how I look, this is what I'd appreciate advice on, getting stereotyped as ang moh on the daily is not for the weak 🤏

Posted Nov 5, 2025, 11:52 PM UTC

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