Should I stop talking to him ?

i (F22) have been talking/dating this person (M23) for a little over two months. we met on a dating app. I waited about 6 weeks and multiple dates to sleep with him. he is a nice guy in many ways such as opening doors, communicating daily through text/call, complementing me, paying for our dates, driving to me etc. except he says weird things that throw me off so much.

for example, after a heated make out session before we slept together he was still horny and asked me “what type of porn do you think I’m gonna watch tonight” and he replied “definitely Latina” which is what I am. I also shared how many ppl I have been w intimately (not many) and after, I asked what about him and he never answered me.

He also goes out to party but ends up blacking out so he doesn’t remember anything.I am not too fond of that. (I work night life so I try to not be a hypocrite/controlling and ask them to stay in.) he also takes so long to finish in bed and requests me to say things or to finish in me and it just makes me feel like I’m playing a role of someone in the adult videos he watches or people he had been with before me.

 He’s confessed he self-gratifies everyday and also watches porn which is something I stopped doing as it’s bad for you and distorts your view of sex and intimacy. I enjoy our friendship and we get along pretty well but these things are becoming deal breakers for me. I haven’t fully communicated how I feel I just asked for space after he blacked out the night before a special date we had planned. How should I move forward? Communicate how I feel and ask for change ? Or stop talking to him all together?

tl;dr - Guy I’m dating is nice overall but says weird things and might be a dealbreaker