Is it really by choice?

I’m turning 40 next month and decided to start ivf with sperm donor very soon.

To be honest, it’s not really by choice. I didn’t dream this to be like this. I tried to find a decent guy so that I could have a partner, the child has a dad. But it’s just not happening.

I lowered my standards, put up with guys I wouldn’t normally stand half an hour just because they met the basic criterium. But still couldn’t find a partner.

On the other hand, to all those guys who didn’t choose me even though I would be happy to settle for them, you know what? I can have a baby without you, but you can’t have a baby without me. Joke is on you.