7 months of trying after losing our first…..terrified of secondary infertility

Introduction

Hey all - my wife and I have been trying to conceive our second pregnancy, and she just got her period again after our 7th cycle of actively tracking and trying. Unfortunately, our first pregnancy, which was conceived quickly and easily (around 2-3 cycles) ended in termination very late, which makes this all that much harder. On top of it; my wife has endo, which we know can complicate things.

Now that it’s been 7 months……is there a stronger likelihood that something is actually wrong? Are we being impatient / unlucky? All our friends have been getting pregnant right away….,it’s hard not to feel like an outlier.

Has anyone experienced secondary infertility in a similar way? What was the outcome?

Posted Nov 5, 2025, 11:54 PM UTC

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