Toxic tank/healer duo in Zot

My best friend has one class left to level: PCT. I decide to go with him as PCT as well in Zot. Load on, have a PLD and AST, both from the same server. We exchange our o/ and off we go. First pull is fine. Second pull, I run a little ahead but stop and wait- the healer rescues me, then does /slap. I go, "???? I stopped. Don't be like that. Really?" They said nothing.

We get through the first two bosses fine. I run ahead of the tank a couple more times, but I always stop and wait, because I know Zot can hit like a truck, and the AST is kinda struggling. I don't pull or anything, just stand there until the tank and healer can catch up (best friend is right behind me).

We get to Sandruva, tank runs in and attacks, so we all go. Then, I get shirked, and smirked, TB goes off, killing me. Bestie goes, "???" in chat. Neither PLD nor AST said a word. I say, "I didn't pull, wtf?" I then put in our linkshell, "Fuck this", and bounced. Best friend followed suit.

I reported both. Got a response from a GM while in a dungeon, but they said they had enough info to go on.

If you get offended by someone simply running ahead of you- not even pulling- it may be time to uninstall.