I hate not being well liked but I’d also hate to have more friends

The thought of getting invited out and to weddings or things I don’t want to do feel like hell. I got a wife and a couple of friends and family at the moment and that will honestly do. I’m 36 and I’d rather deal with feeling a bit unliked that live a life I’m uncomfortable with. This suits me quite well really. I just hope I don’t get put in any difficult situations in the future. I have other phobias in general and I kind of wish I could just stay at home sometimes because of this. I’m happy to go out but obviously I don’t always have complete control over things and sometimes you got to do stuff in life you don’t want to do. I want a low key life and even going to work is pushing it for me