I am dizzy from trying to figure this out.

Wife texts me at 2 am saying she is drinking and puking and drinking and puking. She deserved the pain and said don't reply. How tf can I receive a text like that and not be concerned? I finally hear back from her and she is just livid that I was worried. Admittedly, of course, I am trying to reach her and friends to check on her. I am telling her I will give her space and that I'm there if she needed me. She flips a lid. I feel so confused and worried.