how to keep distance from the lovers one?

It’s my second time using seeking, and the first was a bit boring. Receiving 40+ messages, but no one seems interested in actually having a sugar relationship. Like i’m 21 and you’re in your 50-60s, and you’re expecting me to have sex with you, and adapt to your schedule/life just because you have an amazing personality. And if i demand something from you, i’m being a wh0re?

Anyway, i installed again and i don’t think it’s going to different sides.

How would you deal with this? How can i be clearer about what i’m looking for?