You're Not Having a Baby

You're having a human. That human will be an adult. That adult will remember how you treated them. That adult will have to live with the consequences of your decisions for the rest of their lives. Having babies because you love having babies is irresponsible. They are humans that reap the repercussions you your decisions. If you are not capable of helping a baby become a good human then make a CHOICE to do better. Please, don't get pregnant because you love having babies, despite zero resources for raising good people. The world is lacking good people. Babies are cute but then they become real living people out in the world, with other people and that has an effect greater than "I want a baby".