The worst she can say is no...
Alright Storytime.
So I had the opportunity to do an internship in Greece this september. And the place where I was working was extremely chill. It was an excursion center where you could book all the trips and excursion. My boss was the best person I could've imagined and I am still in contact with her.
She also had 5 very cute cats in her office and they were the reason how I came in touch with one of the girls I was working with. When we had nothing to do we were both sitting in the backoffice and we petted the cats. We talked about different things and it was fun. And we even walked back from work to our accomodation talking about the day.
Our connection was very good Imo and one day I had the confidence and courage to ask her out. It was the first time ever I did this but I felt the chances weren't that bad because sometimes when we petted the cats we looked into each others eyes and smiled. But when I did ask her out, she said she has a boyfriend and looked disgusted all of a sudden. If she would've just said she has a boyfriend it would be alright, I mean it happens.
The next days were very very uncomfortable because you know. But apparently she told all her friends and she gave them my number they found my Instagram they added me on Snapchat. And it was not long until many messages arrived me. From saying I am a stalker who followes her around, being a reckless pedophile (She was 16 btw omg...), accuses of masturbating on minors to even messaages like I should be ashamed, and commit suicide.
So basically idk what she told all her friends but I guess so many wrong things were said and of course they believe her I don't know what to do anymore. I guess I know where the assumptions of me following came from because we were literally located in the same place in Greece and so it happened that we saw each other.
Now I don't know what to do anymore, messages arrive me until this day so I guess I won't ask any more girls out from now on 😭
Anyways thank you for reading all of this I really appreciate it, I just have to get this out of my mind 🙏
Posted Nov 10, 2025, 11:58 AM UTC