about looks

Firstly, i know everyone has a different type, but i have been thinking on this question for so long. On the mangas (including hentai or other types), animations, when the boy is submissive and the girl is dominant, boy is drawn much cuter and femine looking and the girl usually stays normal (classic femine face and features). İs it mostly like that in real life? Because i couldn't find any statistic that shows this preference. And i think most of the dominant girls tend to prefer cuter and femine looking boys. The main reason that this question made me think so hard is because im into dominant girls but i don't like masculine or dominant features on women. But on the internet, dominant girls are usually with femine looking boys. Why is it like that? Do every dominant girl likes femine and cute looking boys or this is just a generalization?