When Hotwifing and Friendship Collide. Bull's POV

In my experience, mixing hotwifing with friends or acquaintances is almost always a bad idea. Boundaries get blurry, emotions get weird, and sooner or later someone ends up feeling slighted or insecure. What should be a fun, low-pressure dynamic can turn into drama way faster when friendship is involved. For me, it only ever led to awkward situations and a bad overall experience.

After my first divorce, I spent a few years as a bull for different hotwife couples. At one point, I even introduced a friend and his partners to the lifestyle and ended up being his bull for a couple of his girlfriends after his own divorce. Everything was fine until one of them started getting a little too attached to me as a bull.

I’m loyal to my friends, so I kept it straightforward and focused on making the dynamic work. She genuinely had fun, but eventually the two of them started arguing right in front of me, and that completely ruined the night for everyone.

After that, I stepped back and told them I couldn’t continue as their bull. That experience just reinforced my take: hotwifing with friends usually isn’t worth the fallout.

Have any of you had experiences hotwifing or playing with friends or acquaintances? Did it strengthen the dynamic or create more complications than it was worth?