My dysfunctional family

I'm gonna start with soft thing, my parents will travel to another place for awhile and they said they will send my grandma to live with me so I tell them to have an at least 1 week for me to being alone since no matter who they are, spending time with my family give me stress but they said something about my safety even tho they're one of the main cause of my mental unstability. My parents also said something like I need them to protect me before let me go but they don't really let me try to live a life. They also upset when I lock my own room door and never even knocked before come in.

My mother was angry at me for saying a cuss word, sounds normal right? She yelled at me right there and my friend heard it too(we're voice calling) insult me, left my room and angry at me for that for the whole night And if you thought I was at the age of south park's kid. Nope, I was in a middle school.

Talking about a middle school, once I was going to hangout with with my friends but my mother wasn't let me because my friends don't want to go with her car and tell me they're untrustworthy even tho they already send the photo of themselves to me(I try to show it to her but she kept refusing) she even angry at me and somehow she confused why I have a very few friends back then.

My mother also angry at me when I don't answer her call even tho I told her that the notif didn't tell me that someone is calling (she sometime understand but why should someone parents angry at their kid for that at first and it's not like I intentionally ignore her)

They also keep pamper me like I'm not be able to walk on my own(not much now compared to when I was in the middle school but yeah) ex. follow me to the camp(middle school), forced me to come sleep with them instead of my camp roommates once(middle school) checking my messages(middle school, still checking my emails but it's okay since it's my school email) to the point that some of my classmates mocked me and bullied for not being 'grow up' I told them but they told me to ignore them cause they just jealous and keep doing it and I can't do any shit about that cause if I keep urging they will say something like I don't want them or I don't love my family(They're kinda right about this cause I kinda hate this household but guess the reason why) so I have to keep being patient about got mocked, my parents did take action when I got bullied(there are more story about me getting bullied but not now) but they said I should told them earlier which I already did before it's gone too far bruh.

My parents usually argue, in the house, car, outside, in front of me (97% my father started first and he doesn't even care if it would make me or my mom looks bad) so if you think my mom is bad, introduce you to my religious father, he's homophobic, kinda sexist/racist, probably got cancelled for at least 7 apps for sharing he opps and have said my music taste isn't really good in front of my face but he loves to turn on the praying psalm very loud to the point that our neighbors can hear it and will be angry if me/mom turned it off or even lower the voice(he isn't Christian and I won't tell the religion because it's not important but it isn't a cult so don't worry) , sometime at night and he doesn't even care if that noise make me hard to sleep.

That's the tips of the iceberg, I might vent more later or not. Thx 4 reading.