24 [M4F] #UK - Muslim Submissive/Switch looking for Domme partner (Eventually Wife)

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Me:

  • 24
  • 6’1
  • Muscular /more dadbod these days😂(used to be more lean lol)
  • midlands
  • Workout 3-4 times a week, reader, professional job, respectful, hardworking

Looking for a genuine long term relationship, I understand the undertone is sexual but Id still want to build something proper and meaningful, and hopefully life long.

I dont intend to give up my responsibilities as a man, I fully intend on having a normal relationship (2 people doing their best for eachother and their future) and being the man of the relationship, guiding the family and being a pillar of support and safety, but intimately, I prefer dominant women.

In summary there’s no denying I am a masculine man, at the workplace, at family gatherings etc etc. and I still will be that for my woman, and even if she’s a switch I can work with that, it’s just intimately I know I would like to be more submissive.

Saying that I want a partnership, both ppl on board w decisions etc.

I want to be with someone who priorotises Islam too, I just want these preferences to align before marriage. I would prefer if you priorotised your health as I do. I dont intend for this to stay online for too long, after a bit of texting id want to meet irl for coffee or lunch to get to know eachother more.

My submission is not just sexual, it is emotional and mental in the presence of a strong, beautiful woman. I want to be able to cuddle up with you when ive had a bad day and trust that you'll always be there as I will for you. But also you knowing that you can be weak and vulnerable around me too.

I want a romantic woman, who enjoys all the small cutesy relationship things.

Preference for gentle dommes who like a little bit of rough play.

Kinks - I can explain in the dms but centrally they’re around feet and femdom.

Limits are any butt play or blood/urine/poo.

Can discuss further. Not a definitive list.

You:

  • 20 to 26
  • Any height (prefer >5’5)
  • Any ethnic background
  • Muslim
  • UK, - happy to relocate/compromise (limited to Western Europe)
  • Serious about long term

Essentially look. I want a muslim woman, who knows what type of person she is, but who is worried they wont be able to express a part of them that is so integral to them in a traditional marriage setup. Because that’s who I am.

N.B there’s a beautifully written post by another brother on this Reddit- and I may have appropriated and edited his post to fit my profile. I hope that’s okay and I hope that we are all able to find our partners who will fulfil our needs mutually in a halal way.

Posted Nov 10, 2025, 12:09 PM UTC

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