Should I text them
So I met this person and we hung out about three times and they would text me like every day for the last two or three weeks. They were like I really liked hanging out with you and I was like me too and they were like we should definitely hang out again and asked me a couple of times if I wanted to do something but it was last minute like do you want to meet me at this bar I’m at or whatever which I can’t do because I’m a single parent, I need some notice to plan to go out. So then any time I’m like what about tomorrow or what about this day they don’t really respond to that specific part of the message although they did say “well definitely plan something because I want to see you” Friday they asked me if I wanted to meet at the bar they were at but I was working and then they also said “I’m free all weekend” so I was like what about tomorrow then No response until the next day, but they still didn’t say like oh yeah let’s hang out or anything like that. The last time they texted me was Saturday night, it’s now Monday morning I haven’t heard from them
I’m like should I text or are we like done talking I can’t tell if I’m over thinking this or what I don’t really get out a lot so I’m not really sure. Either way I’m not really impressed with the inconsistency. I’m not looking for anything serious but I’m not really sure if I want to continue anything at this point because of the mixed signals.
Like I’m not going to constantly be like trying to plan something if they have no interest in it but it’s kind of confusing because they were initially the one expressing interest and it seemed like we were getting along well/having a good time.
Posted Nov 10, 2025, 12:10 PM UTC