Confused after coffee date. Male 27.
Hi,
I am a 4th years male doctoral student in a university.
There is a girl in masters program in my institute. She is in second year.
Let me jump to the main story directly.
We meet during her first semester. I was her TA for one course. We talked little about college life and academics in group.
Our eyes used to meet each other. she also had a boyfriend of few months.
after some one year they had a breakup.
I asked her for coffee when she was in 3rd semester. We went out had a nice coffee date. it was late night after 10 PM. We walked all the way back to the campus. discussed about others family as well.
next day i asked her if i can join her in the mess, she happily agreed. i joined her with her friends. her friends were teasing me there. again she asked about my siblings etc.
In midway during conversation something went off with her i guess. she kinda became cold.
after few days i asked for mess again this time very cold.
anyways, i kept trying to keep up the conversation on WA and Insta.
One day i just asked her that i like you this is why I am talking to you but looks I misread and you do not seem interested in me at all. ask said i apologise if i came like a creep.
she said its alright but she doesnt want things to go like this.
few weeks later we meet she greeted me. i kinda ignored her went kept walking.
I REALLY DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT IS GOING ON, Our eyes used to meet very frequently i have seen her looking at me on many occasions.
please help me out.
Posted Nov 10, 2025, 12:11 PM UTC