Confused after coffee date. Male 27.

Hi,

I am a 4th years male doctoral student in a university.

There is a girl in masters program in my institute. She is in second year.

Let me jump to the main story directly.

We meet during her first semester. I was her TA for one course. We talked little about college life and academics in group.

Our eyes used to meet each other. she also had a boyfriend of few months.

after some one year they had a breakup.

I asked her for coffee when she was in 3rd semester. We went out had a nice coffee date. it was late night after 10 PM. We walked all the way back to the campus. discussed about others family as well.

next day i asked her if i can join her in the mess, she happily agreed. i joined her with her friends. her friends were teasing me there. again she asked about my siblings etc.

In midway during conversation something went off with her i guess. she kinda became cold.

after few days i asked for mess again this time very cold.

anyways, i kept trying to keep up the conversation on WA and Insta.

One day i just asked her that i like you this is why I am talking to you but looks I misread and you do not seem interested in me at all. ask said i apologise if i came like a creep.

she said its alright but she doesnt want things to go like this.

few weeks later we meet she greeted me. i kinda ignored her went kept walking.

I REALLY DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT IS GOING ON, Our eyes used to meet very frequently i have seen her looking at me on many occasions.

please help me out.

Posted Nov 10, 2025, 12:11 PM UTC

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