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Foldable_FOlder

My LDR GF might be lying to me.

So a few weeks ago my GF told me she was starting to fall out of because I was starting to be selfish and self centered and not giving her attention and i admit that I was. My actions led her to lie to me so she could play games and hang out with her friends. I have to point out that although I was a lot of things I never lied to her so I was really hurt when she told me she lied to me.

We confronted each other about this and decided to work on our flaws since we still loved each other although her feelings towards me are not the same anymore. Recently a storm hit her country and her internet has been suffering. But when she does get to talk to me she disappears and I see her online in game. But she tells me she shares her account with her friends and that they're her friends playing. But I have doubts since the account is online only when she disappears.

I'm not bothered with her playing. I'm just hurt that she still chooses to lie to me even though she promised me that she would always be honest.

What am I supposed to do? Please don't be so negative as to assume that she's cheating cause she is not that kind of person.

Posted Nov 10, 2025, 12:14 PM UTC

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