Manchild

This man . It’s so much to type but I’m going to do my best to explain. He got fired for theft, they said he stole 2 thousand dollars he claimed that he didn’t and I believed him because he’s never done anything bad like that that I knew of. He was always a GM and he’d always been a fixer, as in he’d be hired to go into stores and help the GM make her/his store better. Well he got fired because a deposit went misplaced. On camera, it showed him with a paper bag that he walked out of the store with.

I never saw that bag or that money.

He ended up getting a job at a gas station and he liked it. But it made a third of what he did before. We got evicted from our apartment that we’d lived in for 5 years.

Then, I found out that he’d cheated on me. At least 6 times that he admitted to. It was all random, all random people that were cruising and had him suck their dicks. I was pissed. I was pissed that he went and pleaded guilty to the theft too and signed up for a program that was similar to probation. It was the PTI program. Because when he told me it was an option I told him it was crazy to agree to if he was innocent. He agreed to it behind my back. It required him to do community service hours and I guess pay money every month.

I just got a letter that says he agreed to the community hours and the amount to be paid every month but he never paid anything and he never did any community service hours. Now he has a court date for the 14th.

He says he planned to pay it all at the end and I’m like when did you even think we’d have that kind of money??? To pay it all at once? I did the math and it adds up to about $900 only as of now. We are struggling, living with my mom. We don’t have that kind of money!

He’s going to go to jail. I feel like I’m in a teenage relationship and I’ve been with this man for 9 years. I’m 30. I’m so sick of this.

I love him but he just doesn’t seem to grow up. I feel like he set our whole world on fire

I won’t be able to ask my mom to bail him out again, she’s at the end of her savings. He’s going to have to sit in jail! Why does he not take this shit seriously?! It’s not a joke. I am so sick of this. He’s literally 62 years old and he won’t grow the fuck up