She’s managed to somehow get into a non-sexual situationship with Mr. Soccer

I don’t get it. It’s like she’s trying to act like she has a roster of men and she has a situationship or a friends with benefits, but they aren’t friends and there’s no benefits. What’s the point? She’s saving herself for marriage I’m pretty sure so if she doesn’t want a relationship with mr.soccer or doesn’t think it will happen what is she doing? We all know he invites her over hoping something will happen, which it won’t, and he won’t go in public with her. She just wants a buddy to watch shrek 2 with to create the illusion she has options?? Someone help me understand.