A question for former or current Alex fans

What was it about Alex's content that made you loyal to her? Did you not notice her lies amd nasty demeanour? Yes at one time she was pleasant but over the last 8 years, she turned into a psychological liar. Before you broke with Alex, what made you notice her lies?

For current Alex fans, despite all the evidence showing her as a liar, why are you still loyal to her?