Mornings the worst?

Is anybody’s BPD partner worse in the mornings? I swear almost ever day my partner wakes up with a laundry list of the things I’m doing wrong. Make them breakfast? The eggs aren’t right. Cleaning? I’m too loud. Things like shutting the door properly, my tv program choice, anything sets them off. I’m the first one up and I’m so grateful for those minutes of peace alone, but I dread hearing them start to wake up in the next room. I’m wondering if the morning shit-show is typical of BPD or if it’s just this particular person.