The hatred I feel for those who say they love me but don't even try to listen or understand me is inexplicable.

My boyfriend's mother says I'm like a daughter to her but then when I tell her about my problems (she asks because she notices them), she doesn't try to understand me. She wants to tell me that it's not as I say, that it doesn't matter if he's automatic because everyone is strange, that my sensory problems are not sensory problems but a lack of education on the part of my parents... she wants to tell me the causes of my problems. He wants to tell me what I'm like, he seems to know better than me and my therapist.

He spends the whole day doing nothing on the phone, he doesn't have 1 minute to look up what autism is??? I don't feel like being with her anymore.