One of my port in my network adapter is not showing up in esxi

HELP,

so im working on HPE DL360 Gen10 server and after installing esxi 8.0.3 one of port on the SFP network adapter is showing as disconnected inside esxi. The card im using is "HP Ethernet 10Gb 2-port 530SFP+ Adapter- NIC ". Even from server boot menu > system utilities i can see the card and two ports i even can blink them ifyk. i have used correct transceivers and 'good' fiber cable

i have other similar setup with the same card and same esxi version.... the esxi can see both ports as connected..

let me know you need more details...