Renewal of our minds

Recently I saw a lady complaining and ranting coz a guy disagreed with her plan to be child free and calling her and the all of those of that line mean. Honestly it was wrong coz everyone is entitled to the freedom to choose. However, I'm forced to ask myself 'why wouldn't you want to have a kid or two?'.

First, it's the uncertainty of life that makes it worth living. I have never imagined a situation where one says 'I wish I wasn't born', extremely rare, in fact, for most of us, we are greatful for the opportunity to try and figure it out, in the very least we have a chance to try, and we COULD end up making the world a better place and experience the satisfaction, the peace and the joy that comes with it. Now my big question is, if our parents gave us this opportunity, an opportunity to try, and fail and try again, why would you hesitate or worse deny someone else the same chance that you were given.

Lastly, it's clear that having kids just as any other thing could turn out good or bad. You could derive endless pain and regrets from it or from it, you could be happy and full of laughter, and now my other question is, why are most of us in the negative side of this, why are we residing in the shadow when we can dream and hope to be in the light.

Let us give ourselves the benefit of doubt coz that uncertainty, my friends, is what life is all about.