Narcissists actually enjoy being Narcissistic

We've been so busy pointing out all its flaws and how it makes people around them feel. We've been blindsided.

I remember once my old Covert Nice Guy Narcissist friend telling my old Covert Vulnerable Narcissist friend in a low energy, smirky, arrogant, entitled tone " (Insert Vulnerable friend's name here) YouTube is made for people like us"

Two things about that;

1; Notice how he didn't say "*At least* YouTube is made for ... " Which heavily implies he has at least no problem with having Narcissism

2; They were secretly discussing the condition they both had infront of me. That is extremely rude.

As for the 'Narcissist Meltdown'

When I saw my old Covert Vulnerable Narcissist friend sit down on the Pavement during a Walk and saying " Oh dear me, Oh dear me" At the time I thought he was in distress. But I look back now and realise that he was basically yelling to the world "I have a nice problem to have! I have a nice problem to have!"

A stark contrast to when a Narcissist has to suffer the consequences of their actions, whereupon they would instantly put up a wall and or discard while showing much visible stress.