Social services

So i split with my childs father when pregnant as he was abusive i gave him a chance to show if he could be a dad after baby was born as i “wasnt” giving him a chance (i wouldnt let him have him overnight as he threw a chair across the room as i woke him up while i was pregnant an in my opinion if ur doing that when an adult wakes u up nicely imagine a screaming baby) so i gave him the opportunity to at my home so i was nearby long story short i had to get him to leave as he was being a dick but i asked social for support before i got back with him and they refused me as my child wasnt in any danger and i was doing well either way when i asked my childs father to leave when he was being a twat he refused and called the police on me the police removed him as it was my house but social now want to put a plan together so my ex dont worm him way back in however when i asked for the help they refused basically i wanna know if they can use the fact i got back with him against me even tho i tried getting the help from them previously and this all would have probably not happened had they helped me with contact